What You Are Going Through
Getting divorced is like a full time job. You find yourself inundated with phone calls, emails, meetings, and having to make a lot of decisions about your future.
It is on you to track down and organize every single personal and financial piece of information going back to the beginning of time to turn over to your attorney so he/she can make sense of it and represent you and your best interests.
You now have to do everything by yourself – manage and keep up with the house, kids, finances, job, daily operations and paperwork, and answering to your attorney on a timely basis.
You are overwhelmed and had no idea what was to come of this process.
How You Are Feeling
Like you might lose your mind…physically and emotionally exhausted…can’t sleep…hard to concentrate on anything except getting divorced…regret…fear…loneliness…denial…blame…anger…resentment…grief…depression…doubt…you name it, you are probably feeling it.
What You Need
Someone who will listen. Someone you trust. Someone who will be empathetic, understanding, compassionate, patient. Someone who thinks clearly for you when you can’t. Someone who can be your extra brain. Someone who can look at your transition and point out the positive ways of change according to you. Someone who is on your side.